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Mar 21Liked by Aprile Sweers

I know this feeling just in normal conversations that take place in a co-ed setting. I didn’t even notice it was happening until my husband pointed it out and how frustrated it made him to see me treated that way. I am talked over and ignored. I used to be so excited to share my own discoveries about whatever theological topics came up. If I got interrupted, I'd jump back in at the next pause. But now that I've become aware that I'm being ignored, I don't fight to try to be heard. I just walk away. I'm so happy that my husband and I are beginning to find new community where everyone's voice is welcomed and appreciated. God bless you in your studies, Aprile!

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Mar 22Liked by Aprile Sweers

Yes! I for sure have felt that feeling, when people are talking to my husband and I’m like, “Hey, youhoooo! I’m the one in seminary! 👋 “ A friend went to a denomination conference that does ordain women and commented on how amazing it was that people naturally assumed she was a pastor and she didn’t have to justify her existence there. It’s got me thinking it’s like when Ken goes to the real world and someone asks him for the time. You don’t notice how draining it is until you are refreshed by something just normal. It’s a lot to take in. I’d love to have your book list for that class, is SO up my alley!!

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